Unfinished Business

      Off to the races for the day.   Someone asked me recently, "How do you come up with the posts you write?" The honest answer? These thoughts just start running through my head—and they don't let go until I get them out.   After more than 30 years in healthcare, I may …

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When the Tail Stops Wagging: Grief and the Ones Left Behind

            Grief has layers. People don’t always realize that. It shows up with casseroles and pity-laced texts, then leaves when it gets uncomfortable. But grief, the real kind, the kind that’s feral and unforgiving — that grief stays. It stains everything, including the quietest corners of the house. It even …

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Maybe It’s Time to Take Pride Back to Its Roots, before we are forced to.

    I saw yesterday that the Felon-in-Chief has decided to rename June as "Title IX Month" instead of Pride Month. Bold move for a guy who clearly doesn’t give a damn about women—just listen to anything he’s ever said. But like many of his rabid followers, he’s especially frightened by transgender people.   He …

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“It’s Just Joe Being Joe”: The Quiet Damage of Excusing Bad Behavior

  https://youtu.be/CPyo_wSqjrU?si=IeJse2gTh_JV4vER   I’m not sure if this is a reflection, a curiosity, or just a brain dump in motion—but the past few days I’ve been revisiting some of the sporadic blog entries I posted after I stopped writing regularly. One in particular stood out. It was a short piece from shortly after the fertilizer …

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