Everyone was always rooting for our relationship…

So right now, I am binge-watching of all things Bar Rescue and, of course, blogging and processing things about what happened in my 27-year relationship with him. Bar Rescue is a formulaic show. There is a bar that is failing, Jon Taffer (the host) shows up and recons the bar to see what is making …

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Reflections of a trip and grief and random thoughts…

Back home from Costa Rica, and wow, what a trip. It was 7 good days of being out of town, and I was happy to leave and come home for the first time. No, I didn't hate it; I had a pretty good time just hanging out in the sun, by the pool (or in …

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Half the man I used to be…

More of the grieving process thanks for reading That is pretty much what bariatric surgery did to me; it took 165 pounds off of me. It has been freeing and yet weird. I have a blog piece almost ready about the procedure and a rundown of post-op expectations; I need to tidy it up. Honestly, …

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