Two Years Four Weeks Later: The Hard Truth that was held in

      Author's Note – Two Years Later I originally wrote this piece nearly two years ago, in the wake of my husband's suicide. At the time, I was swimming in a sea of questions, grief, and societal expectations about what my relationship meant — to others, to me, and to the world. What …

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When Love is Political and Sex is Assumed

            “Gay sex life, unlike straight sex life, is never a private matter. When a man and a woman walk hand in hand, it is their love that they make public. When two men walk hand in hand, it is their sex life that they make public… Our words are …

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Let the man do his job…

In order of importance. I know that most folks want to see Biden undo all of the former guy's policies, free the kids in cages, end climate change, end homelessness, turn water into wine, find Jimmy Hoffa, and otherwise make good on a slew of campaign promises. Those of you not joining me in sarcasm, …

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Mike Pence?…

  So the person who is spearheading the coronavirus response in this country is Mike Pence. You know Mike pence who singlehandedly prevented an effective response to the HIV in the state of Indiana.   This excerpt from NPR:   During Pence's time as governor, one of Indiana's poorest counties was hit hard with an HIV …

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