We suck at how we deal with sex. We are so prude, so afraid of ourselves and so pleasure adverse it borders on obscene. We also use this “adversion” (among other things) to excuse ourselves at teaching or learning about proper sexual function from a young age.

The first wall the Karens and “religious” people will throw out there is that teaching kids about sex will just make them want to have sex. This is the big argument out of the chute and often the “final” argument where they seem to think they have some level of proof. They don’t.  As suspected with anything regarding the Karens, the proof is exactly the opposite. All unbiased studies and even a few with a definite bias towards the Karens way of thinking have shown not only a decrease in sexual activity, but a more responsible approach to sex.  In other words, they are not just out there fucking, they are using protection and/or contraception. Wow, pretty adult from a group that in your mind has no control of their “urges.” Nope, once it again it seems with information most adolescents take it on themselves to insure they are not making babies or catching diseases or both. Strike one Karen, what else you got?

Ok, Children shouldn’t be fucking. I am mixed on this. In the whole, yes they shouldn’t be, but not for reasons that everyone thinks.

There is an immense amount of emotional baggage that comes with sex.  Admit it or not, the level of intimacy is insane and unless they are prepared for that reaction to sex, anyone may not deal well with the concept of one night stands. Some folks need the discussion of intimacy about as much as they need the lecture on mechanics, and that my friends is where we need to focus. We fail to address this, because honestly I think we are hoping for that attachment (or the Karens are). Who the hell cares? Prudes and folks with the breed like rabbits agenda. The bottom line is that 2 consenting adults (and actually even teens with a reasonable age difference (2 years max)) should not be shunned for sex. Once again, not promoting teens fucking teens (and definitely adults) but well informed teens statistically use protection and contraception at a rate higher than adults.

Knowledge is power, which is a statement the Mayans believed, is certainly in play here. If you talk to and teach your kids, are an open source for them, and provide accurate, unreligious filtered information you stand a good chance raising a kid that has a healthy sex life through adulthood. You want that. Lord knows most folks out there are like a friends wife who was raised Mormon. She is absolutely a fish in bed, basically demanding that the lights be out, the sex be missionary, and forget any fun little variations. After everyone is done roll over and go to sleep, gross. She was raised to make babies (as the Mormon church is huge on that). What she just found out is that she has low fertility and the doctor literally told her, that she needed to have longer and more penatrative sex to help her with the chances of sperm implantation.

Women are not just there to make babies. Women can enjoy sex for sex sake and should.  We don’t give a rats ass in society about whether boys fuck, but if a girl does? She’s a slut. Like that is healthy for a woman. Be better to women.

It also makes me shake my head to think how much men think they should control things.  You do know you are lucky that you are not just dating your hand (especially with all the weird laws about contraception or abortion).

I dunno (I do, but its an expression) I think we need to lighten up about sex. Learn about about and for dog’s sake (friends wife) turn the fucking lights on and enjoy the sights. I love sex and the release with a good session is almost like this semi-expensive vacation.

Last medical thoughts here. Men, pony the hell up and wrap your junk. Don’t give me a shit excuse about “it not feeling as good”. Women, be ready because men are pigs and won’t follow the advice above. Make sure you are armed with knowledge.  As a provider I will always answer the questions that never were answered for you (even if you are 80) and give you medical correct info. Consent between the two of you and enjoy the release. I think if more people had regular sex, there would be hella less stress…

Well enough, last day in the tropics, so more relaxation and finishing off food, before we leave tomorrow.

Be the kind of person your mom and your dog hope you are.