Half the man I used to be…

More of the grieving process thanks for reading That is pretty much what bariatric surgery did to me; it took 165 pounds off of me. It has been freeing and yet weird. I have a blog piece almost ready about the procedure and a rundown of post-op expectations; I need to tidy it up. Honestly, …

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Nursiepoo’s grieving…

This will be an unhinged post, so fair warning. On May 22, one of the worst chapters in my life ended. I was honestly happy, although it didn't require his death; he just needed to be the fuck out of my life. This letter to him… is raw emotion, so you have been warned. Dear …

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So I bought a new bike out of spite…

  Yeah, you read it right, out of spite.   I spent 27 years with my partner, later officially my husband. Honestly, from the beginning, I am unsure how we ever made it other than we both had parents who were of the "make it work no matter what" generation. Besides, his parents are Catholic and …

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