Never Read the Comments

Social media hasn’t created more cruelty—it’s just made it harder to ignore. Sexual assault, racism, abuse—they’ve always been here. The difference is we can’t hide them anymore. As a survivor of both childhood assault and military sexual trauma, I can say this much: rape isn’t about sex. It’s about control. And it’s past time we stopped excusing it.

An overdue follow-up…

Way back in March, when I was young and naïve and thought, "I will recommit to a daily blog, I talked about the Vanessa Guillen act and how it did nothing to deal with survivors. Well, finally the "next few days," have happened and here is one of the follow-ups. Be warned; I am going …

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Co-dependent much?

  Upfront this story discusses sexual assault, be warned.  So nursiepoo has a confession to make. No, I was not the second gunman on the grassy knoll, nor am I some superhero by night in a quest to right the wrongs in the world. You've seen things of late, none of us have time to …

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I am that b*tch…

Gonna break the OP into several posts, because at 6 pages you would be begging.  tldr for this is: We need something, but this isn't that bill Vanessa, Vanessa, Vanessa… Holy cow, I am tired AF of hearing that name. I hear that name over and over and the bill that is associated with it. …

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