Sex, sex, sex…

  We suck at how we deal with sex. We are so prude, so afraid of ourselves and so pleasure adverse it borders on obscene. We also use this "adversion" (among other things) to excuse ourselves at teaching or learning about proper sexual function from a young age. The first wall the Karens and "religious" …

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Mindfulness and the moral injury…

Welcome to day one away from the comfy frozenness of the castle in the lovely tropics. To say that this was an easy journey, it is not. PTSD doesn’t pack well and landing in a country where you have a somewhat aversion to the spoken language, because your rapist spoke it, is a tough bug. …

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