Silence Is the System

Military Sexual Trauma is not only about the assault itself. It is also about the silence that follows. This companion piece looks at how institutions, culture, and fear can allow abuse to survive long after the moment of violence has passed.

Scars of Service: Military Sexual Trauma

Military Sexual Trauma remains one of the most under-discussed realities of military service. In this installment of Scars of Service, I share my own experience and the long shadow it cast over my life.

Who Exactly Is Voting for Rape?

Most people say they oppose rape. Far fewer are willing to stand against it when it requires accountability. This is a continuation of yesterday’s post—angrier, clearer, and unwilling to let excuses stand.

Never Read the Comments

Social media hasn’t created more cruelty—it’s just made it harder to ignore. Sexual assault, racism, abuse—they’ve always been here. The difference is we can’t hide them anymore. As a survivor of both childhood assault and military sexual trauma, I can say this much: rape isn’t about sex. It’s about control. And it’s past time we stopped excusing it.